One of the marvels of personality is its resistance to prediction. One man's paralyzing trauma is another man's invitation to take control of his life; one woman's grounds for insanity is another woman's ground to a dramatic shaping of self.

In compassion and grace be like the sunin concealing others faults be like nightin anger and fury be like the deadin modesty and humility be like the earthin tolerance be like the seaeither appear as you are, or be as you appear